Sometimes taking a stand is painful ... no scratch that, it is always painful! Everyone (even those that stand with you) seem to have a ax to grind with how it is handled. Some thing you are too strong, some think you are too weak. Some say don't be so gruff, some say don't be a wimp.
The bottom line is that when you find an issue meaningful enough for you to take a stand on ... you know drawing a line in the sand and saying everything on this side is okay but when you cross this "we've got a problem" ... don't expect that the crowd will rally around you and praise your eloquent handling of those that have an opposing view.
People are often afraid of how the world will judge them if they stand too firm. They're afraid that someone will "call them out" and make fun of them or argue better than they do. In short they are afraid of being made a fool of, and that is a powerful deterrent for most folks.
As I age I'm less likely to take a stand on minor things but much less fearful of being made a fool of, in fact I could care less about people that know me thinking I'm being foolish. The lack of fear is my best asset in a moral battle. People can sense when you are are solid ground with your understanding and at peace with the consequences of your stance.
Your confidence will shake theirs, your fearlessness will instill fear in them, your calm attitude will shake their resolve. When you are not worried about the pain of a moral stand ... truth and right will prevail! So, don't be afraid if you are standing firmly on the side of right, the pain will fade and when the smoke clears the world will be better for your sacrifice!
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